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Care Shawls for TRU Hospice Patients

January 17, 2020 by TRU Community Care

*Sue Samuels at home crafting a Care Shawl*

In 1998, Janet Severi Bristow and Victoria Galo, two graduates of the 1997 Women’s Leadership Institute at The Hartford Seminary in Hartford, Connecticut, created Prayer Shawl Ministry. Compassion and the love of knitting/crocheting have been combined into a prayerful ministry and spiritual practice which reaches out to those in need of comfort and solace, as well as in celebration and joy.

Many blessings are prayed into every stitch. Whether they are called Prayer Shawls, Comfort Shawls, or Care Shawls, the shawl maker begins with prayers and blessings for the recipient. The intentions are continued throughout the creation of the shawl. Upon completion, a final blessing is offered before the shawl is sent on its way. Some recipients have continued the kindness by making a shawl and passing it onto someone else in need. As a result, the blessing ripples from person-to-person, with both the giver and receiver feeling the compassion and care put into each shawl.

The shawls can be crocheted, quilted, woven or machine knitted as well. Shawls are given to TRU Patients either at home or in the care center to provide comfort. “Shawls … made for centuries universal and embracing, symbolic of an inclusive, unconditionally loving, God. They wrap, enfold, comfort, cover, give solace, mother, hug, shelter and beautify. Those who have received these shawls have been uplifted and affirmed, as if given wings to fly above their troubles…” Written in 1998 by: Janet Severi Bristow

TRU’s Care Shawl Program

A group of TRU Volunteers began making Care Shawls in 2007 for TRU patients, and there have been over 25 volunteers who have contributed to the program since then. A current volunteer, Sue Samuels, has been making Care Shawls for 9 years. Her husband, Mike, has a knitting machine and has been making them for about a year. One sweet story Sue remembers, “We had a young mother of four at the Care Center. She was given 5 shawls, she wore one and gave one to each of her children.”

Sue also talked about a patient who has begun crocheting lap blankets as a result of their conversations. Sue was able to give a Care Shawl to another patient who snuggles up under it every night.

*Sue Samuels created the beautiful maroon and green shawl on the left. Mike Samuels made the shawl on the right on his knitting machine.*

For more information on the original Prayer Shawl Program please visit shawlministry.com

Want to learn more or get involved?

The Care Shawl Project allows us to create a shawl with beautiful blessings and intentions for our patients and families.

Join us to learn more on Friday, February 28th from 1pm-3pm.

WHERE: Sue Samuels Residence

2165 Pinon Circle, Erie 80516

RSVP to Sue at 302-545-3315

Healing with Horses Through Grief and Loss

June 20, 2019 by Elizabeth Neufeld

Healing with Horses is a program of TRU Community Care and a part of our grief services for youth coping with death and loss. This week we sat down with Raegan Gyorffy, the Director of Grief and Volunteer Services, to gain insight into the immeasurable value of the program.

While describing the group and how the horses impact the participants’ lives, Raegan says, ”The group is truly special. Horses are large and intuitive, able to mirror emotions, and provide a conduit for conversation and a good alternative to traditional group talks.”

The program runs for an 8-week period in the fall and again in the spring. Each week the participants meet for themed sessions that pair conversation with interaction and care for the horses. Youth are partnered with one another based on the similarity of age, their stage of grief, and their type of loss. Additionally, they are matched with a horse for added support. Each program has eight youth and up to six adults to ensure the safety and care for everyone involved.

A coordinator of the program expresses her experience and perspective of the impact the horses have in the participant’s grief process by explaining that,

“The relationship with the horse offers connection that helps ground the kids and breaks down barriers. We often see kids who are silent during the talking circle and come alive and expand once they are with the horses. It seems to offer a non-threatening space for kids to open up, move their bodies, and engage their senses in a way that gives them access to their emotions and thoughts. Also, being outside, getting exercise and having fun are all healthy ways to cope with big emotions!”

She herself has learned from the youth participants how to cope with grief and loss, the power of connection and being understood, and the importance of the power of feeling seen in our grief. One father told her that his son says “grief camp” is his son’s favorite activity of all the things he does for fun.

Stories like these are truly why Grief Services and specialized programs like Healing with Horses are so crucial to the heart of TRU Community Care. We could not do it without the heart and dedication of our staff, volunteers, families, donors, and overarching community.

To learn more about Grief Services and how you can become involved with Healing with Horses, please visit our Services and Volunteer page.

Spring News!

April 12, 2019 by Elizabeth Neufeld

The snow is melting, the sun is out, and we are looking forward to the spring season with updates on the latest from our donors, care specialists, group meetings, volunteer appreciation, and more! Read more to find out the latest from our Spring Newsletter. A few highlights are included below:

Understanding Palliative Care, palliative care is often misunderstood to be one and the same as hospice care, but palliative care is NOT hospice care. It does not replace the patient’s primary treatment but works together with the primary treatment being received. It focuses on the pain, symptoms, and stress of serious illness most often as an adjunct to curative care modalities.

TRU Community Care is excited to introduce our renovated TRU Palliative Care (TPC) program which takes an interdisciplinary approach! This approach provides coordinated care with the patient’s primary physician in order to enhance the patient’s healthcare experience, improve the patient’s quality of life, and ensure that treatments and care are focused on the patient and family’s goals of care. TPC is a collaborative approach to managing your physical, emotional, and social needs depending on your needs.

Tele-Consult Study Partnership with mHealth Impact Lab and CU, TRU recently solidified a partnership with mHealth Impact Lab at the Colorado School of Public Health, CU Anschutz Medical Campus. This partnership will lend additional strength and validity to TRU’s tele-consult study, which was launched in October, thanks to a grant from NextFifty Initiative. TRU strives to better meet patients’ needs in the most efficient and affordable way possible; the final study results will be shared with CMS and NHPCO in an effort to influence the ability of hospices to use the tele-consult model to complete regulatorily required face-to-face visits.

We Honor Veterans, Our veterans have bravely served us. It is now our privilege to serve them. Veterans with life-limiting illnesses face unique issues that can exacerbate physical and emotional symptoms at an already difficult time. In response to these challenges, TRU Community Care offers TRU Heroes, a special end-of-life care program that’s based on the principles of comfort, choice, dignity, and respect and tailored to the specific needs of veterans and their families. If you are a veteran or someone who is passionate about serving veterans and would like to assist with our We Honor Veterans efforts, please contact info@trucare.org.

We Honor Volunteers, This week is national volunteer appreciation week and we celebrated with a luncheon to honor our loyal volunteers. Our volunteers serve the TRU Community Care mission by supporting our patients and their families, in grief, and with administrative tasks. We’re so thankful for the important work they do to support our cause. Special thanks to the youth group of First United Methodist Church in Lafayette for donating decorations, Chili’s of Lafayette for donating the food, the Threshold Singers and Brune Macary for providing musical entertainment, and TRU staff who helped put the event together. It was a wonderful occasion!

TRU Grief Groups Explore Expressive Arts, we are thrilled to offer two new grief groups, Yoga After Loss and Writing Through Grief.

Yoga After Loss is a support group for those who wish to explore grief through the practice of yoga, using breath-work, poses, and meditation. This group meets on Wednesdays in Lafayette from 6:00 – 7:30 p.m. for six consecutive weeks.

Writing Through Grief is a support group that meets on Wednesdays in Boulder from 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. for six consecutive weeks. Loss and writing are both very personal experiences. This class provides the opportunity to blend the two in a safe, non-judgmental setting.

Visit here to register.

TRU Ethics Committee, Founded in the 1990s, TRU’s ethics committee was among the nation’s earliest hospice ethics committees in the country. The committee serves in an advisory capacity to:

Provide input to TRU administration on program policy that has ethical dimensions
Assist in developing guiding documents related to ethical issues
Provide an arena in which staff can discuss current clinical/patient care dilemmas, prepare to prevent and resolve ethical dilemmas, and conduct retrospective review of difficult cases
Plan educational offerings for staff on ethical issues

The process of ethics consultation helps answer the question, “what is the best/right thing to do here?”

TRUe Friends Give Back, Dr. Alan Snyder, the founding Medical Director of Boulder Hospice (now TRU Community Care), created the “Circles of Life” sculpture, inspired by TRU’s mission. Dr. Snyder generously donated the sculpture to TRU on behalf of TRUe Friends, a group dedicated to supporting and advancing exemplary care at the end of life, including the leaders (*) who founded TRU as Boulder Hospice in 1976. Thank you to the members of this incredible group: Al Canner, Jane Carlson, John Fleagle, Carolyn Henninger, Ardee Imerman, Jean Jasmine, *Marcia Lattanzi Licht, Heather Le Masurier, Jere Mock, *Kathryn Oakes, *Beau Rezendes,
Peggy Richardson, Claire Riley, Judy Schilling, Darv Smith, *Alan Snyder, *Karin Sobeck, and Peg Young. “Circles of Life” is located outside the main entrance to TRU PACE on Park Lane in Lafayette. Please stop by to see the sculpture and to take a tour of PACE!

Donor Spotlight, TRU PACE recently received a generous $15,000 grant from the Herbert and Judy Paige Family Foundation in support of
our work to provide preventive, primary, acute, and long-term care services that enable elderly individuals to continue living safely in the community. This grant specifically allows TRU PACE to expand usage of MedaCubes, which are “medication robots” with web portal analytics to help frail elders take their medications as prescribed and maintain their independence.

Save the Date! These events are coming up this spring and summer:

Veteran Benefits Seminar: Education on End of Life Care Planning, Wednesday, May 1, Howe Mortuary in Longmont
Caregiver Symposium, Wednesday, May 22, Boulder Jewish Community Center
Butterfly Memorial and Release, Saturday, June 22, TRU PACE Labyrinth in Lafayette
TRU Palisade Peaches Sale, Peach Pick-Up: Saturday, August 10, TRU PACE in Lafayette

Visit trucare.org/events for more information!

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Four Siblings, 2400 Hours Of Volunteer Work, and One Hospice

April 9, 2019 by TRU Community Care

In honor of Volunteer Appreciation Week, we sat down with four of TRU Community Care’s longest standing volunteers; a family of four siblings. All of whom have dedicated over 2400 hours to supporting TRU’s mission. We wanted to better understand their motivation for being a hospice volunteer and gain a better understanding of what it takes to do this kind of work.

When Steve Boselli first started volunteering for a hospice organization, it was during the AIDS epidemic in the late 1980s and early 1990s in downtown Denver. He was drawn to the Mother Teresa’s organization, Seaton House which helped the ailing by providing respite and hospice care.

Little did he know, that this would turn into over 1300 hours of volunteer work with TRU Community Care for himself and an additional 1200 hours of volunteering for three of his twelve siblings.

Don Boselli, Steve Boselli, Denise Boselli, and Sharon (Boselli) Thomas are brothers and sisters from Boulder County. All of whom share a passion for serving others and have collectively served over 30 years with TRU Community Care in both the in-patient TRU Care Center and in-home hospice with TRU Community Care.

Their family’s passion for helping others is apparent and understandable given their upbringing with a father who was a Deacon in the Catholic Church. The fact that all four of these siblings have chosen to volunteer with TRU is what makes this family unique.

“Spending time with people at the end of their life is really peaceful and beautiful. You are there to hear their story, to comfort them, and to give a little relief to their caretaker” as told by Denise Boselli.

These siblings don’t have training in healthcare or caretaking other than the robust training that is provided by TRU Community Care. They did however care for their sister, Mary, who died in 1999 of ALS, and also their father, Bud, who died in 2010. They set up hospice in the home for both their sister and father and the twelve siblings took shifts for over three months to support the process.

While it was a different feeling in caring for his sister and father, Steve tells us that working with TRU Community Care patients, “ is about learning from those that we work with, their families, their lives, their gratitude toward others. You don’t always know the situation that you are going to walk into, so you need to be flexible and accepting to the environment, but caring for them is the easy part.”

TRU realizes that there are a lot of misconceptions about volunteering for a hospice organization, including that you have to be there for the patient when they die and hold their hand. Don explains that this really isn’t the case. “Most of the time patients are awake and sharing stories with you. And when they aren’t feeling up to being social, you can just sit there and be a presence in the room in case they need something.”

All the siblings explain that a big part of the volunteer job is being there for the nurses, who are working 8-12 hour shifts. In order to support them, they bring them food, coffee, cheers, and are there to really pump them up.

“If more people know about the reality of this type of service, perhaps more people would volunteer for TRU Community Care–there are so many different ways to show up.” says Sharon.

It’s the small things that matter when doing hospice volunteer work including gestures, reading, music, listening, and showing up. The Boselli family has learned to do these things well and to teach others along the way. They all plan to continue their work with TRU and share their stories, so that perhaps others will be motivated to volunteer as well.

— Thank you Boselli Family for sharing your story with TRU Community Care!

If you are interested in volunteering for TRU, please visit the volunteer section of our website to learn more.

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One Year of Volunteering with TRU

March 26, 2019 by TRU Community Care

My name is Stephanie and I have been a volunteer at TRU Community Care for a year. Working with TRU Community Care has helped me put my own life in perspective. It has been a learning experience about the challenges and experiences and, yes, joys people go through at the end of life and it has taught me to treasure each moment with my family and friends. In my year, I have worked with people from age 25 to age 100. Some of them lived with disease for years and one of them had been diagnosed the month before going to the care center. I have realized that none of us has a contract on our lives, and I have learned to take advantage of the times I have with the people I care about.

There are a wide range of options for volunteer experiences with TRU. This last year, I worked as a companion, provided respite care, provided transportation, and provided assistance with patients in the care center. The staff at TRU tries to match the volunteer experience that fits your talents and provides the most personal satisfaction for you. I have found that no matter what I was doing, It was a deeply touching and meaningful experience.

When I retired, I had to recreate myself and decide what I wanted to do now. I ended up with a goal of finding a head job, a heart job, and a job that would make use of my creative talents. TRU provides the heart job that I need. It is not unusual for people to ask, “How can you do that type of work?” and, “Isn’t it uncomfortable for you?” Volunteering with TRU can sometimes be an emotional experience, but as a volunteer, I am doing whatever I can to make sure that the patient has the opportunity to live every moment until they die. One patient was talking with me about her fear of dying, and it led to a conversation about her family that had us both belly laughing. She looked at me and said, “Thank you for making me laugh.” That was a moment unlike any other and the reason why I volunteer.

My family has used hospice twice in the past several years. Both times I watched the compassionate hospice team care for my loved ones. I will never forget how helpful, kind, and compassionate they were for me and my family who found ourselves in unusual, confusing, stressful, and emotional circumstances. We learned that hospice isn’t something to fear. It would have been much more difficult for us if hospice had not been there to provide day and night advice and assistance. I put it in the back of my head that I would try to give back if the opportunity came up for me.

The first assignment that I took after I completed hospice volunteer training was with an 89-year-old woman. She wanted to memorize the Gettysburg Address before she died. I was so impressed that a woman who was at the end of life still had a bucket list that I jumped at the chance to work with her. We spent many hours over a few months time going over and over the Gettysburg Address. When she got tired, she would recite poetry to me that she had memorized over the years – The Village Smithy and The Children’s Hour. I heard about her life with her husband – they had been together since kindergarten. I met her family. It was an honor to spend time with her, and I had a real sense of satisfaction in knowing that, in a small way, I helped her achieve a goal she set for herself. I am amused with the idea that somehow, somewhere she has run into Abraham Lincoln and they had a good old time discussing the Gettysburg Address. I’m sure she told him how difficult the last two sentences are.

There have been many moments of hospice volunteering that I will treasure. The 100-year-old woman who played the piano for me as we sang Jack and Jill Went Up the Hill. Her daughter told me she had not played the piano in months before that point. There was a gentleman who I took to the grocery store to buy cigarettes and a lottery ticket so he could win and give his son a lot of money. He had not lost his interest in what was going on in the world and we had rousing political discussions. There was the man who wanted me to read Hank the Cowdog to him. And the woman who couldn’t speak, but she FaceTimed with her grandchildren regularly.

Volunteering with TRU has also helped me understand how important it is to make my family aware of my end of life wishes. Death is, perhaps, the hardest thing to talk about. But having that conversation before the emotional distress of a crisis kicks in will help my loved ones know the setting that I prefer, with the amount of end-of-life intervention that I want to have. The medical staff who takes care of me will be able to work with my family to provide the care I want, and my loved ones will have better grief outcomes.

My first year at TRU Community Care has been a special one. Every person I have worked with has had different needs, but I found that no matter what kind of person they are or what kind of life they have led, when it comes to the end, something as simple as listening, smiling, offering a caring touch, or just being there can provide real comfort. Volunteering with hospice is a genuinely gratifying experience.

If you are interested in volunteering with TRU, please visit the volunteer section of our website to learn more.

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