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February

February 25, 2015 by TRU Community Care

Winter Cones

By TRU Grief Services

The groundhog saw his shadow and six more weeks of winter was predicted.  Valentine’s Day came and went and the grocery stores were drenched in flowers and chocolate.  Snow comes and goes quickly as it comes and spring is not quite here.  But for me, the word that comes to mind is yearning.  In grief we yearn for what is just out of reach, for what was and not for what is in the present moment.  It is what we long for again.  The longing, the ache in the heart and body, is part of the grieving process and it is sometimes difficult to give ourselves the compassion to feel and accept it.

When I yearn for the person who has died, I have to give myself the compassion to accept that and permission to cope in whatever way works in the present moment.  Our clinical supervisor defined compassion as the “deep awareness of the suffering of another with the desire to relieve it.”   For the month of February, I ask myself: can I give myself the gift of self-love and compassion to accept my grief?  If my special person who died were sitting next to me now, what would s/he say to me?  Can I receive compassion?  Does it take away the yearning for my loved one during Valentine’s Day?  No, but compassion is a gentle reminder to not judge the process or the feelings that go along with missing the person who has died. I continue to yearn.

Image courtesy of Eric Stensland Fine Art Photography

Filed Under: Uncategorized, Grief

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About TRU

TRU Community Care (TRU) affirms life at every step of your journey with illness and loss. Our vision is to lead a healthcare transformation by engaging with our communities and offering innovative, meaningful care for those living with illness and loss.

Founded as Boulder Hospice in 1976, TRU is a Colorado-licensed, Medicare and Medicaid-certified, nonprofit health care organization serving Boulder, Broomfield, Adams, Jefferson, Arapahoe, Denver, and Weld Counties and beyond. With a focus on providing a continuum of care for members of our community living with advanced illness and loss, TRU’s programs include TRU Hospice, TRU PACE (Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly), TRU Palliative Care, Landmark Memory Care, and TRU Grief Services.

TRU Hospice is proudly accredited by The Joint Commission and is a five-star-level hospice in NHPCO's We Honor Veterans program created in collaboration with the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). TRU is a member of the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO), the National Partnership for Healthcare and Hospice Innovation (NPHI), the Center to Advance Palliative Care (CAPC), Nurses Improving Care for Healthsystem Elders (NICHE), and the National PACE Association (NPA).

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